Anxiety and Overwhelm Therapy

Therapy for overwhelmed, anxious, and high-achieving women and LGBTQ+ folks

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Anxiety and Overwhelm Therapy- When Anxiety Makes Everything Feel Like Too Much

You’re holding so much…work, family, mental checklists, invisible expectations.

And on the outside, you look like you’re managing. But inside? You’re unraveling.

Maybe you’re tired of second-guessing every decision.
Maybe you feel like you're constantly “on” with no time to rest.
Maybe you can’t remember the last time you felt truly present—with your partner, your kids, or yourself.

If you’ve been wondering, “Is it supposed to feel this hard all the time?” —you’re not alone. Therapy can help.

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Who I Help: Anxiety and Overwhelm Therapy

Hi, I’m Brittany Deutch (she/her), LPC, ATR-BC. I work with overwhelmed women and LGBTQ+ folks who are used to keeping it all together—for everyone but themselves.

Many of my clients are people-pleasers, perfectionists, and caretakers who’ve spent years doing what they should be doing—often at the expense of what they truly want. And now? The anxiety is louder than ever.

You might relate to thoughts like:

  • “If I slow down, something will fall apart.”

  • “I can’t ask for help—I should be able to handle this.”

  • “What if I’m letting everyone down?”

Anxiety doesn’t always look like panic attacks. Sometimes it looks like irritability, numbing out with your phone, or waking up at 3 a.m. running through your to-do list. Sometimes it’s just a heavy sense of not-enoughness—no matter how much you do.

My Approach: Warm, Human, and Gently Challenging Anxiety Therapy

Therapy with me is a space to finally stop performing.
To stop pushing down what you really feel.
To stop trying to “fix” yourself and start reconnecting with who you are.

I bring my full, authentic self into the room so you can too. I’ll hold space for the hard things and gently challenge you when old patterns keep you stuck.

My anxiety therapy integrates learning how to check in with yourself and help your body calm down, using art therapy for when words aren’t enough, tapping into your true values and what you actually want rather than what you “should” want, and exploring the parts of yourself that feel overwhelmed—understanding where they came from and how your past still impacts you today.

You don’t have to do this alone. We’ll slow things down so you can:

  • Understand what’s really fueling your anxiety

  • Recognize your needs without guilt

  • Build boundaries that protect your energy

  • Learn to trust your inner voice again

"But I Don’t Have Time For Therapy”

I hear this a lot. When life already feels like too much, adding one more thing can feel impossible.

But what if one hour a week could create the space you need to breathe again?

Therapy isn’t selfish. It’s the foundation that helps you show up more fully—for your loved ones, and for yourself. And with telehealth sessions, you can access anxiety therapy in Richmond, VA without commuting or rearranging your entire day.

Let’s Change the Narrative Around Anxiety and Rest

What if you didn’t have to carry it all alone?
What if rest wasn’t earned by exhaustion?
What if saying “no” didn’t come with guilt?

Together, we’ll explore these questions—and start building a life that feels good to live, not just one you survive.

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Schedule your free 20-minute consultation today. Let’s see if we’re a good fit.

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  • If we wanted to make anxiety as simple as possible, it’s the fear of the unknown. Anxiety isn’t bad—it’s actually a natural response to stress. It can show up as worry, nervousness, or unease about what might happen next. But when those feelings become constant, overwhelming, or start to impact how you move through your daily life, that’s often a sign it’s time for support.

  • There are several types of anxiety disorders, and they can all look a little different:

    • Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD): Ongoing worry about everyday things—often feeling like your brain can’t “turn off.”

    • Panic Disorder: Sudden, intense episodes of fear or panic that can feel physical (racing heart, shortness of breath).

    • Social Anxiety Disorder: Fear of being judged or embarrassed in social situations, leading to avoidance or overthinking.

    • Specific Phobias: Intense fear of a particular situation or object (like flying, heights, or needles).

    • Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD): Repetitive thoughts or behaviors that feel hard to control.

    • Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD): Anxiety responses tied to past trauma or distressing experiences.

  • If you’re feeling anxious more often than not—or your worry, tension, or overthinking is getting in the way of everyday life—you might be experiencing an anxiety disorder. Common signs include constant worry, restlessness, fatigue, irritability, muscle tension, difficulty sleeping, or feeling like your mind never stops running.

  • Anxiety can come from many places. For high-achieving, caring people, it often develops from feeling like you have to do everything just right or hold everything together for everyone else. Genetics, life stressors, trauma, or perfectionistic patterns can all play a role. It’s not your fault—your brain and body have just learned to stay on alert, even when you’re safe now.

  • Anxiety is treatable, and therapy is one of the most effective ways to work through it. Common approaches include:

    • Therapy: Working with an anxiety therapist helps you understand your patterns, calm your nervous system, and build new coping tools.

    • Medication: For some, anti-anxiety or antidepressant medication (prescribed by a doctor or psychiatrist) can help make therapy more effective.

    • Lifestyle shifts: Regular movement, better sleep, balanced nutrition, and boundaries around rest can make a big difference.

    • Mindfulness & relaxation techniques: Learning how to slow your mind and body through mindfulness, grounding, or deep breathing helps retrain your system to feel safe again.

  • Therapy helps you address the root of your anxiety, not just the symptoms (even though you learn tools to help manage those too). Medication can be a helpful tool, especially when anxiety feels unmanageable on its own. For many people, a combination of therapy and medication works best.

  • Yes. Anxiety doesn’t just live in your head—it shows up in your body too. Chronic anxiety can lead to headaches, muscle tension, stomach issues, fatigue, and sleep problems. Therapy can help you notice what your body is holding and learn to release it instead of carrying it alone.

  • Look for a therapist who talks specifically about treating anxiety on their website or profile—and whose approach resonates with you. If you’re someone who looks “fine” on the outside but is quietly unraveling inside, you’ll want a therapist who can see beneath the surface. A good anxiety therapist in Richmond, VA won’t just hand you coping skills—they’ll help you understand why you feel this way and how to finally find calm and clarity again.

  • Absolutely. With the right support, anxiety can soften. You can learn to calm your body, quiet your mind, and trust yourself again. It’s not about “getting rid” of anxiety—it’s about no longer letting it run your life.

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    Identity and Relationship Stress

    Navigating who you are and how you show up in your relationships can feel heavy. Maybe you’ve lost touch with yourself while caring for everyone else. Maybe you’re ready to rediscover your voice, your needs, and what it feels like to show up as your authentic self.

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    Trauma

    Healing from trauma is like piecing together a shattered mirror, reflecting not just the scars but the strength that's emerged from the journey. Together, we can create a space to look at those pieces, find a clarity on how they continue to impact us, and rediscover the beauty that's always been within.

Additional Resources on Anxiety

If you're looking to better understand anxiety or explore additional support outside of therapy, these trusted resources can help:

National Institute of Mental Health – Anxiety Disorders
A helpful overview of the different types of anxiety disorders, symptoms, and treatment options from a leading government authority on mental health.

Anxiety and Depression Association of America – Generalized Anxiety Disorder
In-depth information on GAD, including how it shows up, causes, and evidence-based treatment approaches.

American Psychological Association – Anxiety
Offers a broad look at anxiety, how it affects mental and physical health, and how therapy can help.

TherapyDen – LGBTQ+ Mental Health Resources
A curated list of affirming mental health resources for LGBTQ+ individuals seeking support and connection.

Richmond Behavioral Health Authority – Mental Health Services
A local resource for mental health services and community-based support in Richmond, VA.

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